How to Find Your Purpose When Your Job Drains You (ft. Career Coach Shira Baron)

Have you ever woken up tired—not from lack of sleep, but from lack of alignment?

That’s exactly what former civil rights lawyer Shira Baron felt after 15 years in a demanding career. In this week’s episode of Notes to My Nervous System, she shares how she rebuilt her identity, reconnected with her strengths, and found a career that energizes instead of drains.

Our conversation is packed with insight, especially for therapists, educators, and high-performing professionals who feel like they’re “going through the motions.”

1. Feeling Stuck Isn’t Failure—It’s Data

Shira helps clients understand that “stuck” simply means the nervous system has outgrown a role, routine, or identity.

It’s a message—not a verdict.

2. Confidence Is Rebuilt Through Action

Confidence isn’t something that magically appears.

It’s built through small, intentional actions aligned with your values.

Shira shares a quick exercise anyone can try when they’re stuck between choices.

3. Your Nervous System Knows the Truth First

When your career doesn’t fit anymore, the body tells the truth through:

Feeling drained after “easy” days

Brain fog

Emotional numbness

Imposter syndrome

Dread before meetings

These aren’t flaws—they’re indicators.

4. Leadership Pressure Impacts Your Physiology

Shira explains how leadership activates the same pathways as chronic stress:

Tight shoulders

Shallow breath

Difficulty regulating emotions

Urgency over clarity

This is why it’s so hard to think strategically when you’re overwhelmed—your brain is in protection mode.

5. Motherhood & Identity Redefine the Path Forward

We talked about the identity shift that happens in motherhood—how priorities, energy, and values change.

Shira helps clients integrate their “before kids self” with their leadership self, without burning out.

6. Purpose Lives Where Your Strengths + Values + Joy Intersect

Shira teaches clients to identify their “flow state”—the activities that make time disappear and energy return.

That’s where purpose lives.

Why This Episode Matters

If your job drains you, you’re not broken, and you’re not behind.

Your nervous system is telling you the truth:

You’re ready for something aligned, meaningful, and sustainable.

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With warmth and clarity,

Erin

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